Invitation to a marriage by someone so far

i remember reshmi giving an invitation to me about her brother's marriage. i didnt went. i thot dat she gave me card for the sake only. now that i think of it i feel bit bad coz she wouldn't have noticed even if i hadn't gone. but it would've mattered if i went. coz that means that i care for her invitation. after all... she was my first crush in college. in general we should always try to go to a marriage if we can coz it shows d odr person that we care about them.

What do we want most ?

Money? It makes us happy but too much money is waste.
Eternal happiness ?
Power ? Like a king ?

Sound of Hope

Wherever i go, to every prayer meetings, to every talk, every TV serials,movies.it says that every1 is bad . we are bad , we aren't worthy and all sorts of crap. However i do blv dat people need HOPE  They need to have the feeling that there's good in this world. somethings worth living for... something worth fighting for.. even if sometimes..... sometimes. you are so tired and dont want to go any further.

Showing off on Cars

I don't understand why people attach boards to their cars saying he/she is Ex-Army/Lawyer. Yes.. i can live with the title 'Doctor'. if an accident occurs at road, people can look at the board of a car and call him out(even if he don't wanna come). another showing off is by the police and

The Pant Culture

One of the things i hate the most about today is Ladies wearing pants.
it may be easy to wear or have many advantages...
but i love women who wear traditional churuidars or sari.
i pity those who wear pants.

The way to do something

First start with WHY
Then go to WHAT
then go to how.

After the Marriage

After a marriage, in the hall the crowd slowly dissolves and what is left is 2 people only .
i got this idea on feba's wedding. after the marriage, her friends and family has gone. \
only a bunch of people is what is left and all are minding there business.
slow English song playing in the background. and walking there i could see just feba and her husband. it felt like they  are the most lonely people there. still they had the look and talk like ... from now onwards , i am here for u..

Musician should love a friend more than music

I was thinking about how the background singers would feel about themselves.people tell d lead singers bot to let background singers sing the main part. However d other person insist bcoz human values r more important than a good song.

Instill Fear

How do we instill fear on others? It makes villains superb. Just a look should make him fear. Not like voldemort . I mean the dialogues.. they try it by dialogues alone. And viewers aren't afraid.

The Person who plans at time very second.

He takes quick decisions according to the situations. he never makes plans. he just decides and let go.

The Planner.

Planner .. he plans everything before doing it. he plans the exact time of doing it . he is entirely dependent on time. Last plan he had,he describes it to villain and moves.

Humble vs selling short.

How is being humble differrent from selling short?

Blame

Feeling bad when some1 blame us for something we didnt meant to do...

Doing for inner gratification

Never do something for praise from other or some gratification that you will  get from those.. coz when it subsides , u will have no cause to do and u will stop. EG: if ur fighting for some1 to see you , if some day dat some1 isn't there. u wud stop fyting ....

just nothing

Hi ,
first of all don't think that ur a bad person or a bad friend in any respect. we (me and anjana and midhun) used to talk how good a friend are you. pls dont undermine urself.
secondly... there are situation when u know... best friends cant talk.
i have a best friend tania. i know i cant call her after her marriage.
i stopped talking with her many times.
i thought it was the right thing to do from my part.being away.
it never did any good. many days of agony and then i call her .
i then think what i was missing ... all the best days ...
i then stopped behaving like that .
 i said it in my context...
u can do what u like...just dont hurt each othere. there's no need. dont mind what people like me think .
dont think about giving back anything ... he can perfectly understand ur sitn .
i know he can .
rest is up to u...
Bye.

Best in everyone

There's good in everyone.. no matter how bad they seem.
we have to try to see that good in everyone....

Fuel for mind

I got this on a mail....

Ever tried driving a car over a steep muddy slope? Your foot needs to be always on the accelerator & the gear needs to be lowered till the slope is covered. The moment you release your foot, your climb stops but thanks to the brakes you don't slide back. If the path is muddy, the car can skid and slide back and forth. It is the engine that keeps the car going. But the engine cannot run alone, it needs fuel in the tank. 
If the fuel is out then you are stuck and can't move up. 

Our struggle against the sinful nature is like going uphill. Your inner self which is brought to life by God's grace needs to fight the the outer worldly self daily. If there is lot of fuel in the tank, then the engine will keep going, but if fuel is low you are in trouble. Is your inner self getting enough fuel to go against the gravity of sin? Or is your outer self getting more of the upper hand?

What they used to be

Seeing people change isn’t what hurts
What hurts is remembering who they used to be

Drinking

After i drink and when i come to my senses, i feel guilty for cheating my parents....
i am the only person in 3rd generation.
Next thing which come to my mind is that i have to put a mask from now. all the time i drank , people around me had no mask .. they were open ...
i started it to make company..