Doing for inner gratification

Never do something for praise from other or some gratification that you will  get from those.. coz when it subsides , u will have no cause to do and u will stop. EG: if ur fighting for some1 to see you , if some day dat some1 isn't there. u wud stop fyting ....

just nothing

Hi ,
first of all don't think that ur a bad person or a bad friend in any respect. we (me and anjana and midhun) used to talk how good a friend are you. pls dont undermine urself.
secondly... there are situation when u know... best friends cant talk.
i have a best friend tania. i know i cant call her after her marriage.
i stopped talking with her many times.
i thought it was the right thing to do from my part.being away.
it never did any good. many days of agony and then i call her .
i then think what i was missing ... all the best days ...
i then stopped behaving like that .
 i said it in my context...
u can do what u like...just dont hurt each othere. there's no need. dont mind what people like me think .
dont think about giving back anything ... he can perfectly understand ur sitn .
i know he can .
rest is up to u...
Bye.

Best in everyone

There's good in everyone.. no matter how bad they seem.
we have to try to see that good in everyone....

Fuel for mind

I got this on a mail....

Ever tried driving a car over a steep muddy slope? Your foot needs to be always on the accelerator & the gear needs to be lowered till the slope is covered. The moment you release your foot, your climb stops but thanks to the brakes you don't slide back. If the path is muddy, the car can skid and slide back and forth. It is the engine that keeps the car going. But the engine cannot run alone, it needs fuel in the tank. 
If the fuel is out then you are stuck and can't move up. 

Our struggle against the sinful nature is like going uphill. Your inner self which is brought to life by God's grace needs to fight the the outer worldly self daily. If there is lot of fuel in the tank, then the engine will keep going, but if fuel is low you are in trouble. Is your inner self getting enough fuel to go against the gravity of sin? Or is your outer self getting more of the upper hand?

What they used to be

Seeing people change isn’t what hurts
What hurts is remembering who they used to be

Drinking

After i drink and when i come to my senses, i feel guilty for cheating my parents....
i am the only person in 3rd generation.
Next thing which come to my mind is that i have to put a mask from now. all the time i drank , people around me had no mask .. they were open ...
i started it to make company..